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No one tries to sound like crap when they open the mic.
No one spends time planning ways to blather on and on without a payoff.
No one wants to do a lousy job day after day.
No spouse or real friend hopes to do something that’ll really piss you off or hurt you.
We’re human. We screw up.
The best advice I can give you: Assume Positive Intent.
Always.
There’s enough anger and resentment in our lives without heaping more on the object of your pique.
Start by assuming the best, not the worst.